Hi, I’m Charlie, aka BLUF#1469 (1469), now based in Spain, regularly travelling and working across the UK, EU and online.
I’m a professional coach who helps people cut through uncertainty, feelings of ‘stuckness’, self-doubt or just considering the future and how to live with confidence and clarity of purpose. I believe in supporting people to live FULLY, for me that crucially includes our gear and kink lives, moving from where they are today to where they truly want to be. I offer a coaching experience that's personalised, uplifting and rooted in your wellbeing and values.
As well as my first career of nearly three decades working in the English health system, lots of voluntary work with LGBTQ+ charities including a spell as Trustee Director at akt, I've invested years in coach development training at some of the best schools around and delivered many hundreds of hours working with gay male clients, just like you and me. My research specialises in the benefits of identity alignment between coach and coachee, recognising how this deepens connection and accelerates progress with clients able to be fully authentic, knowing they’re safe and heard. Zero judgement, lots of understanding.
Please take a look at my website ckcoaching.info - it’s deliberately discreet to show this is how I approach my work.
I deliver 121 coaching, available as packages or monthly subscriptions, and host rapid reset retreats here in Andalucia.
Check out my ethics page too about working with people pro-bono or for discounted rates.
I welcome no-strings conversations over a virtual coffee and offer a free 1-hour coaching session to see whether I'm the right coach for you.
My coaching philosophy is: Feel good. Do good. Live fully. If you were waiting for a signal to do something about how you’ve been feeling around life and the future…maybe this is it?
I look forward to connecting with you soon, Charlie
WhatsApp +44 7822 012253
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